Deliberate living


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Deliberate living. 

You cannot employ fleeces for destiny decisions and moment. Hanging your life on chance is a demonstration of weakness and cowardice. You can’t build a lasting colossus based on emotional spikes. 
Just the same way you cannot marry everyone you feel attracted to. From time to time, you’ll always feel attracted to MANY people. Its due to chemicals and light spikes running through your nerves and brain. Its a simple human nature. The folly however is not holding mastery or control of such emotions or states and allowing them to run your life to the point of ruining your life. 
You’ll be surprised at the fleeces people can cook up.

..if this random number goes through and its a female, then she’s my wife. 

Are you kidding me! That’s simple probability and there are calculations for that. 
…if he smiles back at me, then he is mine. 

Rme, a smile is a likability plunge and usually enjoys reciprocity. 
…if the sun rises exactly at 6:43am, it means I have luck for the job. 

If you learn to brand your competence and amplify your sense of value and learn to communicate effectively…you’ll not be denied. 
Just hoping on chance without a sense of purpose and deliberate action or goal makes a mediocre muse out of anyone. 
Make today different! You can.

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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External motivation will always cost you.


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External motivation will always cost you.

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Take it or take it!

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Ehnm… You really Dont have a choice here, just take it as it is. This is one of the reasons I Dont fancy the idea of publishing posts or sharing thoughts everyday (really, I fight it many times)

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I Dont subscribe to the institute of thought that doesn’t allow people to think up for themselves, or own up to their choices, or face the consequences of their fears or inaction or timidity (actually I felt like writing stupidity there…almost. But I’m glad I didn’t.)

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I believe in catalysing the process and protocol of self leadership and government. Here comes one of the Extremisms of coaching or helping, the helper or coach loves what (s)he does and the people love what they get but some coaches don’t know when to stop (or wean the people from depending on coaches for every manna). Either way, its not good from a futurist point of view.

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Tell people what to do, and give them the space to try it out. Let them make mistakes and make them learn from them. When they keep coming to you and you see its becoming a pattern of dependence…disdain them and let them know they must think on their feet and be responsible for themselves. 

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If I tell you what to do or how to solve a problem and you come back asking the same question (just in another grammar), I switch into auto response mode and say “I’m sorry, my responses are limited, you must ask the right question.”

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My point is, let people live their lives. Just guide them through and it doesn’t have to be you all the time. Before the coach or helper begins to suffer from Messiah (saviour) complex. 

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Today I speak to the coach and the coachee.

Enough said. 

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Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel
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Being in tune with your real self


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Being in tune with your real self. 

Finding yourself is a quest you take on for the rest of your life. Now for many people who are following and in pursuit of purpose, they cannot always know why things happen to them or why they make certain choices but everything becomes clear some time after the light or revelation of who they are dawns on them.
Eg. You realised why you lost a relationship because times later you realised you were not really cut out for it. Or you chose a chosen career because somehow it compliments who you were always going to be. 
Now, we may not always have the answers to the happen stances in life, even angels Dont know everything but what us important is to k ow that you are in the center of the will of God for you. That’s the only insurance you can have in life. 
From the age of 7yrs till the age of 21yrs, life will always hint you on who you are to become or the path of your destiny but like many have experienced, they are not always observant of these formative years. 
Let me end with this, 

You are still a mystery to yourself. You Dont know all about yourself. You are a cascade that keeps unveiling new phases and dimensions in time. But with each passing phase, learn to trust yourself and follow after your passion, peace and purpose. 
Its never child’s play. It takes strength, fiesty and determination with the embodiment of grace to live through. 
All the best. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel
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Whatever happened to motivation?


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Whatever happened to motivation? 

Motivation is an important things when it comes to following passion and fulfilling purpose. But motivation can be a tricky thing. 
Motivation is not excitement alone or emotional as many have come to believe. One issue there is in Africa is the life span of motivation is too short and the strength and conviction of motivation is not as potent. 
Remember the time you were all emotional about the fuel price and what you claimed you were going to do? 

Oh! I don’t want to believe you’ve forgotten about the bring back our girls campaigned that you so much followed last year? 

Uhnmm… What about the change agenda of the presidency election? 

OK, let me drive it a little personal, do you recall your promise and goal at the beginning of the year, how you were going to take things seriously and make meaning out of the year? 
So what happened to all of that motivation? 
Motivation  that doesn’t guide you into consistent action is not a good one. 
Motivation that doesn’t not take you out of your comfort zone is not a great one. 
Why do you keep changing ideas and passion or interest, what happened to the last one? Oh, it wasn’t in vogue anymore? There’s little money in it? It’s not making you popular? 
These are the reasons many people have failed. 
When will people learn that you must persist in something to see it through. If indeed it is your passion and purpose to fulfill, then you should not give up easily. 
Don’t let life sell you off short. Find your passion and make sure you are happy and valued in it. 
The year end is upon us, there’s still time to make things right. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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Everyone needs combat training


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Everyone needs combat training. 

There comes a point in life you don’t have to play the nice card. The nice people never really maximise their talents and potentials. You must know how to be tough, how not to make emotional decisions, how to let go of people whose relevance has expired, how to leave places that do not fuel your passion for success anymore, how to dismiss relationships that obviously have no future. 
I know some decisions may seem tough and uncertainty could seem too risky but I must tell you that life doesn’t have an extra tire. Everything you do must be in the interest of your calling and purpose. Anything that doesn’t move you forward or sustain your path to destiny is a waste of time and resources even if it sounds nice and good. 
You’ve heard many things this year, how many have you implemented? How many are you willing to choose to act on  from today? Sometimes you just need someone to be accountable to. Find a coach if need be? Stick to a mentor if necessary but don’t be all by yourself. Your eyes are not enough to see all the possibilities that exist in your potential. You need fresh eyes, fresh mindsets, another paradigm. 
And when you believe you’ve found what to live for, fight for it till you create the reality for everyone to enjoy. 
“Gentlemen don’t win wars, to win a war, you must be a warrior.” –  #TheSpiritumentalyst 
Your week is blessed. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel
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Getting relationships right


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Getting relationships right.  

The word relationship has been abused and underused in our age and time.  Relationship is a general cluster of network, connection and interest from man to man.  So siblings, family, colleagues, allies, mentee, coaches, etc and all casual and professional relationships.  
Relationship these days has been majorly focused on dating and marriage as many have risen calling themselves relationship mentors and coaches and have held specific torches on dating and marriage issues.  
Now I’m not saying that is wrong, but with time it is bound to cause an angular shift from the truth of the nature and foundation of relationships as people believe that’s all relationship. Is about (dating, marriage and sex or emotional issues ) 

I’m praying for that day that men and women will stand in balanced knowledge and verity as addressing relationship issues.  
Friendship is a very powerful thing in relationship, but like the education of this world has advanced (thanks to many relationship coaches) , almost everyone is working to leave the “friendzone” which has been termed a state of ‘dulling’ 
The friend zone by verity is a zone that is strategic and potent but had been disdained because everyone is looking for emotional benefits.  
Personally, I don’t have many friends.  If I’ve never called you to discuss strategic condiments and policies, or ran together in intercession or sit to discuss eschatological trends then you are not my friend. 
Isn’t it time to go back to the truth of friendship as ordained from the beginning and not give room to perversions of this age? 
Think again.  
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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Sifting rightness for verity. 


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Sifting rightness for verity. 

The sense of rightness is a perceived view that is prone to change and evolution as civilisations adapt to shifting times and intertwined cultures. What is right today may simply seem mundane in fifty years time. 
This is the same reason traditional mentalism will always be disposed by more enlightened souls and minds advanced in the philosophy of life, progression and movement. 
This is the same reason you cannot erect a tabernacle on what people postulate…taking it as the modus operandi or vivendi for your life is nothing more than banking on flowing waters or shifting shadows. 
Be responsible for your decisions. Find unmovable modica that can guarantee a life of immortal relevance and eternal contrivance. 
The best gift you can give your life is to make purpose out of it. 
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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