The concept of love revisited. (2)


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The concept of love revisited. (2)
It has been established that love has been misunderstood for aeons because many people chose the wrong realm of man to operate and experience love. 
For you to understand what love is, you must learn to change who you are so that you can change how you see things.
Love is not how your body makes you feel. That’s just hormones and chemicals altering the state of your brain. 
Love is not when you think upon a future where you have a perfect life, with your partner and family and work. That’s just mental synapses and visual transmissions that’s not real. 
Love is not how you interpret what you see. (Maybe that’s just attraction)
Love is 3 things. 

1. Love is a person(-ality). (a being)

2. Love is a nature. (system and architecture)

3. Love is a choice. (proactive decision) 
And for you to experience and understand love, you must BECOME these three things. For without the three, love cannot be perfect. 
The sad thing in life is when someone live without experiencing love or having love experiences. It is one of the reason people feel unfulfilled and purposeless. 
How do you then come to this sense of the concept of love in its perfection?
Stay tuned…
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

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@Harkheindzel

#GiHOS: Global intellectual Hub of Strategists

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The concept of love revisited.


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The concept of Love revisited. 
Love, hmmmm… Love is a code string that’s more than what the human mind can grasp. Every time the mind defines Love, it is always in error. 
Why? Because the mind cannot fully get the meaning of love. 
Bring this down to what people do. When people claim they love things or people, they usually have a misconception of what they are really doing. 
Here is what I mean. 
From the human mind, when you think you love something or someone, you’re doing one of these things. 
1. You like the way something looks.

2. You like the way something makes you feel. 

3. You like what you think you know about something. 

4. Chemicals being secreted in you trigger mental senses that makes you feel good. 
(Note: using ‘like’ here means ‘you feel good or have a good sense about something’)
What you’re doing is not love. Actually, its chemistry and feelings (brain work). Meaning, chemical secretions and brain synapses mess you up temporarily.
This is why this kind of feeling doesn’t last because the secretions don’t run forever so the feeling wanes or you see something better and you simply move on to the next best thing. 
This is not love, at least it is not love in it’s true sense. 
Many people don’t have LOVE. and I’ll let you know what love is probably in my next post. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

#TheSpiritumentalyst

@Harkheindzel

#GiHOS: Global Intellectual Hub of Strategists

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What’s your focus?


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What’s your focus?
Focusing on problems is a good thing, but you must focus on the right problems.
We all have problems! But the problem you focus on determines where you are headed. 
I know of people who are focused on the problems of today. Those who do are usually trapped in the present. They waste time and resources and energy on the present. To the extent that they spend their lives solving problems that they realise they have not really lived. 
Instead, there are others who live in the future as they pass through today. Their focus is on the future and so the only thing the present can do is to reward them for their focus.
What’s the difference?

Do not focus on the problems of today. Why? Because that’s all you get. Problems!

Instead, focus on the problems of tomorrow and you will arrive at the solutions for today. 
That’s how it works. 
If you focus on the problems of today, it simply shows you didn’t do well with yesterday. 
This however can’t be spontaneous, you must build a habit and culture that sees things from another perspective. If you don’t grow the capacity to function this way, nothing can happen for you in this wise. 
You’re already too late if you want to solve the problems of today that should have been taken care of yesterday. So to bring solutions to today’s problems, focus on the problems of tomorrow.
#selah
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

#TheSpiritumentalyst

@Harkheindzel

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Put aside your emotions, they’re overrated.


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Put aside your emotions, they’re overrated.

Don’t get this wrong, emotions are good. They help us communicate and understand frequencies and wavelengths of codes, quanta and data that we would not be able to express if all we had were words and sounds. 
But one thing many people don’t realise is that emotion isn’t causal! Emotion is a product of an already chosen cause or an already decided outcome whether you know about it or not. 
When you’re happy, you’ve already embraced a cause whose result and interpretation to you makes you happy. So being happy shouldn’t be what makes you  do something. 
Same way when you feel lonely, its not what you are bout to do that Mae’s you feel lonely, its already what you’ve believed and accepted about yourself that brings that outcome to you. 
So doing things because you’re happy or sad or lonely etc is a wrong way of viewing and recreating your experiences. 
Why? Because you’re transposing a product of a cause to become another chain of reaction which is a reason why many people make the wrong choices in life. 
You can listen to the rest of this session by listening or downloading 
https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B8O4EbcCaS2EbHpCMldwd0l4UkU/view?usp=drivesdk

… reeducate your mind. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

#TheSpiritumentalyst

@Harkheindzel

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Emotions and Spiritumentalysis


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Emotions aren’t the ingredients for lasting results. 
I’ll choose focused passion over emotion. Look around you, many people are still seeing things from the eye of emotion. This is not bad as it is but it needs to be channeled in the right light else it becomes more hurtful than helpful. 
People have resolutions, new year prophesies, new dreams and visions etc. 
But have you asked yourself, 

How come I was not able to get all I aspired and wanted to do last year?

What am I doing differently this year?
Do you still have the same friends, watch the same program, listen to the same things, have you learnt something new, 
If you can’t really answer these questions then what is the proof that this year will be different?

Because you feel different doesn’t always mean things will be different. By the time the emotional entropy will level up then you’ll see that really nothing has changed. 
So how can you ensure things are changed?

A changed man will always eventually change his environment and outcome. 
Even if your environment is changed by the man hasn’t changed, he will still keep seeing the same things and he will not be able to see the new opportunities..
Opportunities are everywhere but you need fresh eyes to see them. Once a part of your mind changes, your environment will naturally shift to accommodate that change. 
It is not a new year until its a NEW YOU. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

#TheSpiritumentalyst

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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The system-structure influence


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The system-structure influence

Years ago, I used to be very bad in relationships with people. I Dont remember peoples phone numbers or names not to talk of their birthdays. Now thanks to Facebook and a calender schedule I remember many more birthdays. It was not until I became intentional about solving this problem that the system and structure to do so appeared. 
Again, I used to be the person who would wish people a happy birthday by just writing “HBD”. Apart from the fact that its mentally unwise, emotionally lazy and simply a comfort zone disease, it doesn’t really help grammar and expression. I took it upon myself to take the pain to write the “Happy Birthday” every time whether I’m feeling good or lazy. Being intentional about it has restructured how I relate and the energy I put into showing honour and gratitude. 
Fact is, nothing good will happen consistently to you until you have a system that makes doing good compulsory for you whether you feel like it or not and you having a structure in place that helps you recognise opportunities to make this happen. 
Dont let life only happen to you, it usually doesn’t end good. Instead, choose to happen to life. Have a plan that’s embodied by systems and structures. 
So much depends on it. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel
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Change and its mathematics


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Change and its mathematics.

The prognosis of change is one that should be flexibly embraced. Not every change is good. Change is a vector sense (meaning it comes with its magnitude and direction). At inception, its easier to know the direction of change than to know its magnitude. 
Its easy to know which direction a change is driving but know how far the disruption goes is the hard part. 
That said 2017 is going to suggest change to a lot of things. This change comes in many directions. In as much as everyone is clamoring on change change change, you must study the twain properties of change before embracing it. 
In what direction is this change taking me?

What will it cause me to give up?

What must I adapt to or learn to embrace this change?

…and you must seek to know the magnitude of its disruption.

Is this change good now but bad for the future?

Does it make me comfortable now and sting me later on?

What’s the avalanche effect of this change on human culture, socioeconomic, political, religious, educational standards?
Change needs your permission to thrive, although it can be very persuasive and suggestive. 

Yeah, I know Nigerians have a hard time believing things until they see it. Anyways today we shall know. 
Anyways, keep your eyes on the skies.

Interesting things are happening. And the skies tell its stories. 

Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

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