What LOVE is and is NOT


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​#LoveArchitecture: redefinition of the concept of love and relationships.



​#LoveArchitecture: redefinition of the concept of love and relationships.

Session for speakers, counsellors and coaches in the love and relationship niche.

You can get your free tickets here  

​#LoveArchitecture: redefinition of the concept of love and relationships.


​#LoveArchitecture: redefinition of the concept of love and relationships.

Session for speakers, counsellors and coaches in the love and relationship niche.

You can get your free tickets here  

#LoveArchitecture training sessions


​#Spiritumentalysis
#LoveArchitecture: reConditioning the Love and Relationship niche.


My mentees know me, I’m not the kinda person who publicly gives love and relationship counsels or write about it for that matter. 
There are loads of people who have taken up that niche (and yes, a few of them actually know their onions)
But here is my concern, when (many of) those who teach, train or counsel people on love matters have NO IDEA what love really is. 
They read a few books, listened to a few people talk on love and …wait for it… Watch a lot of movies that claim to talk about love. And voila! They are love experts!

It is dangerous to teach assumptions on such a sensitive matter as love.
Now, love is NOT a feeling! 
So what is love?
Love is 3 things. 

1. Love is a person(-ality). (a being)

2. Love is a nature. (system and architecture)

3. Love is a choice. (proactive decision) 
…and you must NOT JUST know these three things before you train, mentor, counsel or talk to people about love. YOU MUST BE THESE THREE THINGS!
It’s time we got out of an emotionally filled but loveless life pattern and generation.
To this end, 

I’ll be taking Counsellors, Love Experts, Relationship Coaches and Behavioral (emotional) Psychologists/Therapists (in relationship niche) and individuals who are ‘deliberate’ about understanding love and relationship dynamics on the “#LoveArchitecture” session.

Date: Saturday July 29th (7pm) and Thursday August 3rd (8pm) 2017.

Venue: Closed Group

Contact: 08182593790 (WhatsApp) or harkheindzelkenny@gmail.com
REGISTRATION CLOSES ON 28th July, 2017 (at sunset)

This session will bring you to learn personally and professionally to;
1. Love yourself. – SPIRIT, SOUL, BODY (Within)

-There is a way to experience and communicate love in your spirit, soul and body AND THEY DON’T ALL USE THE SAME LANGUAGE OR MEDIUM.
2. Respond in love. – RELATIONSHIP with other people (Without)
3. Accept life and living. – HELPS OVERCOME DEPRESSION, FRUSTRATION AND MISINTERPRETING LIFE (Beyond)

-Understanding situations and occurrences to condition them through the love prism.
Registration for this program is FREE, but additional audio resources that will be available for the program will be ordered upon request for a price. (it is NOT COMPULSORY)
Take out from the sessions

1. Tasks on #LoveArchitecture concept cognition .

2. The architecture and need for (personal) love affirmations.

3. Coaching.

…and so much more.

Getting relationships right


​#iMentor 
Getting relationships right.  

The word relationship has been abused and underused in our age and time.  Relationship is a general cluster of network, connection and interest from man to man.  So siblings, family, colleagues, allies, mentee, coaches, etc and all casual and professional relationships.  
Relationship these days has been majorly focused on dating and marriage as many have risen calling themselves relationship mentors and coaches and have held specific torches on dating and marriage issues.  
Now I’m not saying that is wrong, but with time it is bound to cause an angular shift from the truth of the nature and foundation of relationships as people believe that’s all relationship. Is about (dating, marriage and sex or emotional issues ) 

I’m praying for that day that men and women will stand in balanced knowledge and verity as addressing relationship issues.  
Friendship is a very powerful thing in relationship, but like the education of this world has advanced (thanks to many relationship coaches) , almost everyone is working to leave the “friendzone” which has been termed a state of ‘dulling’ 
The friend zone by verity is a zone that is strategic and potent but had been disdained because everyone is looking for emotional benefits.  
Personally, I don’t have many friends.  If I’ve never called you to discuss strategic condiments and policies, or ran together in intercession or sit to discuss eschatological trends then you are not my friend. 
Isn’t it time to go back to the truth of friendship as ordained from the beginning and not give room to perversions of this age? 
Think again.  
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

Join the #GiHOS community today: http://on.fb.me/1LieE0y
לשמוע את המפקד של המארח של יהוה

Getting relationships right.  


#iMentor 
Getting relationships right.  

The word relationship has been abused and underused in our age and time. Relationship is a general cluster of network, connection and interest from man to man. So siblings, family, colleagues, allies, mentee, coaches, etc and all casual and professional relationships.  
Relationship these days has been majorly focused on dating and marriage as many have risen calling themselves relationship mentors and coaches and have held specific torches on dating and marriage issues.  
Now I’m not saying that is wrong, but with time it is bound to cause an angular shift from the truth of the nature and foundation of relationships as people believe that’s all relationship. Is about (dating, marriage and sex or emotional issues ) 

I’m praying for that day that men and women will stand in balanced knowledge and verity as addressing relationship issues.  
Friendship is a very powerful thing in relationship, but like the education of this world has advanced (thanks to many relationship coaches) , almost everyone is working to leave the “friendzone” which has been termed a state of ‘dulling’ 
The friend zone by verity is a zone that is strategic and potent but had been disdained because everyone is looking for emotional benefits.  
Personally, I don’t have many friends. If I’ve never called you to discuss strategic condiments and policies, or ran together in intercession or sit to discuss eschatological trends then you are not my friend. 
Isn’t it time to go back to the truth of friendship as ordained from the beginning and not give room to perversions of this age? 
Think again.  
Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale

Development & Empowerment Strategist.

@Harkheindzel

Join the #GiHOS community today: http://on.fb.me/1LieE0y
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Before you say “I do!”: #iMentor with Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale.


Before you say “I do!”: #iMentor with Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale.

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There’s so much happening to marriages today. its
a serious issue especially for those about to
wed. /1

for the past weeks I’ve seen couples talking about
the heat they experience in marriage via internal
and external forces. /2

many people just have no clue about marriage, all
they do is plan for the wedding. /3

I’ll advice everyone to plan beyond weddings.
weddings will be your happiest day if you don’t
work out for marriage. /4

normally, according to the books, marriage ought
to be merrier than weddings. but you need plans to
see this through. /5

so many married peeps are regretting their
choices. they wish they had said “I don’t!” at the
altar. /6

For the love of God! get a grip of your life before
going for marriage. understand who you’re getting
married to! /7

know how to deal with your spouse’s temperament!
if you don’t, you will endure your marriage while it
lasts. /8

Beauty fades, six packs get walled up by pot belly.
don’t base your affections on temporal things. they
never last. /9

look for character, seek a spouse who displays
godly wisdom. the unseen things are the things
that last. it’s biblically proven. /10

Relationships are good! please it shouldn’t be all
about sex. there’s so much more to consider than the ecstasy of some instantaneous libido or orgasm. /11

You can’t eat your cake and have it. don’t look for
someone who’s perfect. that person only exist in
movies. /12

look for someone that will make you happy,someone that will engage you positively, someone that lives with purpose and fear of God! /13

be ready to commit. you can’t have 100% but you
have to give your 100% . that’s how to make
marriage work. /14

you’ve got to give it what it takes if you want to
nurture lasting bliss in your marriage. /15

I’ll leave you with these few rules and nuggets to
ruminate on. I want the best life for you, but you
have to choose it yourself. /16

let’s talk better. mail me at
Harkheindzelkenny@gmail.com or bbm:
795B8887.
your development and empowerment
strategist,

you can make your life all you’ve dreamed but you
have to choose it and work by its principles.

Marriage isn’t as simple as you may think. If you are in doubt then ask a married couple and ask for the plain and sincere truth.

*Except otherwise stated, all writings are the inspirational product of the author.*