Before you say “I do!”: #iMentor with Harkheindzel Kenny Omiyale.
There’s so much happening to marriages today. its
a serious issue especially for those about to
for the past weeks I’ve seen couples talking about
the heat they experience in marriage via internal
and external forces. /2
many people just have no clue about marriage, all
they do is plan for the wedding. /3
I’ll advice everyone to plan beyond weddings.
weddings will be your happiest day if you don’t
work out for marriage. /4
normally, according to the books, marriage ought
to be merrier than weddings. but you need plans to
see this through. /5
so many married peeps are regretting their
choices. they wish they had said “I don’t!” at the
For the love of God! get a grip of your life before
going for marriage. understand who you’re getting
married to! /7
know how to deal with your spouse’s temperament!
if you don’t, you will endure your marriage while it
Beauty fades, six packs get walled up by pot belly.
don’t base your affections on temporal things. they
never last. /9
look for character, seek a spouse who displays
godly wisdom. the unseen things are the things
that last. it’s biblically proven. /10
Relationships are good! please it shouldn’t be all
about sex. there’s so much more to consider than the ecstasy of some instantaneous libido or orgasm. /11
You can’t eat your cake and have it. don’t look for
someone who’s perfect. that person only exist in
look for someone that will make you happy,someone that will engage you positively, someone that lives with purpose and fear of God! /13
be ready to commit. you can’t have 100% but you
have to give your 100% . that’s how to make
marriage work. /14
you’ve got to give it what it takes if you want to
nurture lasting bliss in your marriage. /15
I’ll leave you with these few rules and nuggets to
ruminate on. I want the best life for you, but you
have to choose it yourself. /16
let’s talk better. mail me at
Harkheindzelkenny@gmail.com or bbm:
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you can make your life all you’ve dreamed but you
have to choose it and work by its principles.
Marriage isn’t as simple as you may think. If you are in doubt then ask a married couple and ask for the plain and sincere truth.
*Except otherwise stated, all writings are the inspirational product of the author.*